That depends upon how much you value the china (society) over the bull (an aggrieved man).

There are more than two options on how to handle this situation.

Don't let the bulk in the china shop to begin with.

Fetch some knives and have steak for dinner.

Get the bull
out of the shop and put him in a pasture where he belongs.

And so forth and so on.

Peterson's problem is he sees everything as a dichotomy where either men are appeased and pandered to or society is destroyed.

Maybe if our society keeps churning our damaginf men, we should let it burn and then start over instead of shackeling ourselves in a suicide pact with destructive men..