SC
1 min readNov 13, 2023

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Sure.

When a man uses you for sex, you've been rejected for anything else.

When a man can't see anything about you beyond your beauty and he pursues you based on that alone, he's rejecting your humanity and every other facet of your being.

When a man offers you a transactional relationship, your being rejected for companionship.

Men are notoriously hypergamous. All girls learn this in high school. Boys lust after cheerleaders and girls who physically mature esrlier and faster and no one else exists. Might as well be invisible. Most girls go through school feeling deeply rejected by boys.

The fat friend or the friend with the frizzy hair and glasses is always rejected. Repeatedly. It hurts so much some girls turn to cutting themselves or starving themselves, or trying to get plastic surgery.

All of that stems from being judged and found wanting.

So I'm not sure where you men think you're educating us in the difficulties of rejection. You're not teaching us something we don't know and haven't experienced. We have. Y'all just never noticed.

The only difference is men get one rejection at a time after investing in some fantasies and women get universally rejected once for all time for the most part.

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