Sure it is. Smash the patriarchy. Stop thinking of every damn thing in binary terms. Stop tryinf to control every damn aspect of peoples lives and shaming or ostracizing them if they don't want to do things your way. Make room.

How we live our lives should not and cannot be one size fits all. That's ridiculous.

Raising children is not the whole of women's (or men's) lives. No one should be confined to those roles as if it were for the entirety of their lives. That is so wasteful.