Sublimus did not say men and women do not exist.

You're misrepresenting what he actually did say completely.

He said your ideas about divine masculinity and divine femininity are bunk. And he's more or less right. They're an abstract idea that may have some use as an abstract, but cannot be applied to the pioulation as a while and it's certainly been a bad idea to force acceptance of gender tropes onto people.

We are what we are. Who we aree comes from complex interactions of DNA, culture, environment and opportunity....not a uniform cookie cutter molding process.