Stop referring to challenging double standards as whataboutism maybe? They're not the same. Not the same at all.
Stop accusing me of perpetuating a mindset of whataboutism. Maybe believe me the first time I tell you, that's not the point I'm making so I don't have to repeat myself.
You can think your way is the best way forward. It's your opinion. Nothing wrong with that.
But no one else had to accept your opinion. And women are done giving endlessly. Our cups are empty. It's time for men to pour some. It's time for men to prove themselves.