Stop it. You're not attractive g men who ate misogynist. You're attracting men, a certain percentage of whom are predatory misogynist because a certain percetage of men are predatory misogynists. It's the same for all of us.

Being wounded doesn't mean that you hate yourself or hate women. Your problem would be internalized misogyny if you were specifically dating these men in order to punish yourself or to "take" from another woman.

Misogyny is the hatred of, contempt for, or prejudice against women or girls. Women who experience internalized misogyny may express it through minimizing the value of women, mistrusting women, and showing gender bias in favor of men."
That's from the Google AI of 'internalized misogyny meaning'


You're wounded. Sounds like you are over valuing romantic love or maybe too focused on seeing things through despite the red flags if there's been any sort of emotional investment rather than cutting your losses.

There's a reason why a lion will hone in on a limping gazelle and it's not because he's specifically attracted to the impingement gazelle over all the other gazelle. It's because he was hunting gazelle and all the other gazelles high tailed it with due haste. But the limping gazelle wasn't flagging theion and she doesn't hate herself or the other gazelle who got away. She was just wounded and predators are going g to do what all predators do. Prey upon the weak and injured.

For sure, tend your wounds. Part of that is not blaming yourself for the behavior of predators. Second part of that is to reexamine and realign your values so the next time you encounter a choad, you high tail it with everyone else on strong, sturdy legs.

Leave sexualmpredators and abusers to go find their match in other predators and abusers.