Spare me the therapy double speak and bullshit.

Where did I say I was disappointed in men or unhappy?

I'm disappointed in dating culture. Name me one person who isn't. I'm upset over dating apps and how they've ruined the dating landscape. Name me one person who isn't.

But that's not the fault of men and it's hurt them too. An argument could be made that it's hurt them worse.

My guy, you do NOT know what the hell you're talking about.

Where did I say I was looking for a companion to share my life with? I already have companions who have already been sharing my life for the whole of my life or theirs. No romantic love is going to outshine that.

Your attempted narrative treats them like they're nothing in service to idolizing Eros. Knock it off. That's your bullshit; I don't want it.

I "checked out" when I realized the only reason I was dating was that I was following a proscribed societal script; I was caving to social pressure. Nothing against the men in there. There were some winners and there were a bunch of losers. I just didn't want what they were offering.

What I felt was relief. Freedom. Joy.

It's your problem if you can't handle that truth. Feel free to go cry in YOUR cornflakes about it. I've got exactly the life I wanted by breaking Patriarchy's rules for me.