Sometimes you really shouldn’t. You’ve got to be able to distinguish when you should and you shouldn’t.
Christians tend to really promote forgiveness in a bad way. That’s one of the reasons why there’s so much abuse in the church. Forgiveness became part of performing Christianity and subsequently a way for abusers to further manipulate and abuse their victims.
Forgiveness is often a loaded concept. You’ve for to be careful with that one in a lot of situations.