Society suffered when men were more masculine as you define it too. It just wasn't the men, in general who suffered.

Apparently, you're okay with suffering so long as you get to prostrate yourself and pander to men.

You do you, Boo. If you're too afraid to live your own life, I'm sure you can find some "nice" authoritative man willing to direct your life for you. Go find your match, if you can. Maybe Pearl can help you find a date.

But don't for one second think all of want to be a pickmeisha or be saddled with one.