So true Dear Fellow Survivor. There absolutely is a toxic femininity as well, it's just there there hasn't been this cult like persona around these traits that ties them to gender propaganda.

TradWife culture may be a rise of it though. This "resting in your femininity" and "men are meant to work to serve you" (so think of and treat your partner/husband as a beloved draft horse and be a desireable carrot so he'll do anything you want) nonsense is pretty wacked and toxic.