So are most of my closest friends. According to them, so am I, but because I'm in my 50s and female, I didn't get observed or tested in childhood. Everybody just thought I was weird.
It's not easy for me either. Never has been. But Grandma made it plain that to get what I wanted in life, it's something I would have to develop to some degreez no matter how hard it was or how badly it frustrates me.
For the record. It still does. Often.