Shes still not going to come knocking on your door, having gotten a flyer. You have to look too.

You have to get out and socialize. I cannot stress this enough. It doesn't have to come naturally to you, it's a learned skill for a lot of people.

Get out there, Gareth. Find some volunteer work or a club. You're into photography so that's perfect. There should be a local clubs if not, start one.

It will be slow at first, they all are. You have to be willing to build and invest the time to do that.

You're also a writer. There should be something local that caters to that, even if it's just readings in the library.

You've got to get off dating apps and get out there. Real life awaits.