She’s not single. She’s married. She’s not projecting. She’s pretty fair and balanced. She’s transgender, so she writes both perspectives, but in separate articles. She’s also very promiscuous, or was in her past so she had zero trouble getting laid. This smells like projection on your part, actually, not hers.
You’re just lying about or misrepresenting her.
Or, you’re making snap judgements over one article rather than looking at someone’s whole catalog. That is, if one were to look at this catty and sniping behavior with generous sympathy because you’re embarrassing yourself.
Either way, what you’re not doing is speaking any kind of TRUTH or acting with integrity.