She's not. 5 of my bisexual friends now identify strictly as lesbians. Out of my full network...all my peoples....amongst the cis het women who have stated or indicated any kind of thoughts or feelings on the state of their love lives or dating in general....

Around 3/4 have made some kind of comment bemoaning the sad fact of their heteronormality. They wish they were lesbians. Or completely asexual.

3 out of 4.

75%.

Wishing they had another option than what so many men are offering. It's just too little for what they're demanding in return and the burden it places on us women. Further, all too often they're not delivering what they promised in the first place. To use the language of Lucy Maud Montgomery... They're promising a bouquet of roses but showing up at the house with skunk cabbage.

And women aren't perfect or innocent angels here. Far too many are buying into the Influencer narrative of exploitation and willingly, actively, and expediently further playing to the desperation of men to get a share of the capitalist's wet dream. Easy money by exploiting others so you don't have to work or build anything or actually contribute to society in any meaningful way.

There's other stuff too, but that's a whole different essay.