She'll probably have some ideas about financial stability or solvency, especially if she has or wants children. If her career is geographically locked in, that will be a factor. Things that have to do with being able to thrive in a shared environment of a relationship will be standards, but they're not universal standards.

Other things that are personal standards are individual but will ultimately fall into those two categories, being loved and respected.

See? What being loved and respected looks and feels like is unique to everyone. Ultimately that's what we all want, but it's not defined the same for every person.

Everything else is not a standard, it's a preference.