She meant accept that women are human beings, not objects.

Women are not walking talking Fleshlites.

A Flesite is an object. If you have one, it has no right to refuse you using it whenever and however you want. You bought it or it was gifted to you. You can do whatever you want to it, regaedless of the level of effort you put in.

But women are not objects. Women are people. Human beings. With their own set of needs, wants, and desires. We get to say no.

If what you're offering doesn't suit is, we can say no.

Even if we said yes before. Even if you handed us the keys and tirle to a brand new Lamborghini. Even if you've already spent months or years wooing us. Even if no one else has ever refused you. Even if you think you've earned it or deserve it. Even if you have proved you're no threat to health or of unwanted pregnancy. Even if....even if.....even if....

Because women are people, and not objects we get to say no if we want for any reason, for all reasons, for no reason. It doesnt matter if the man thinks the reason is "legitimate" or not.

Just like you men do not have to pursue or accept someone who wants you but you don't want. Because you're not objects either, you're people.

And that's part of what personhood means. You both get to accept or refuse sex based on your own personal criteria. Nobody else gets to decide that for you and you don't have to tolerate being used in one way or another, like an object.