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2 min readJun 22, 2023

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She didn't answer, but I'll take a stab at that one if you don't mind.

Depends on what you mean by problem.

Division has always been there. You cannot have any kind of othering or separation that places one over another that does NOT cause division and problems.

Okay, so the division isn't really something new. What is the?

Well, with financial autonomy, women aren't doexed to settle for mediocre or lacklustre men or put up with their bullshit if they treat us poorly.

Is that problem? Not for us women. Does it automatically translate to happiness? Of course not. What you get is the potential for happiness as a function of greater overall well being.

That's not nothing, you know. It's a far sight better than what we got back when you were stuck in bad relationships and having very very few options outside of being in one. Did that mean that no woman was ever happy back then? Of course not.

It seems that having an involved partner who's actually into the true partnering dynamic rather than just brandishinf the title in everyone's face is what makes or breaks happiness inside relstionships. And having a purpose and being healee and whole is what makes or breaks happiness outside relationships.

Is it a problem for men? That's going to be up to them. The same dynamics above will apply. No one is guarantees anything in life and no one is entitled to have everything their way. We all have to make our choices in life and you don't get to choose for someone else without a cost eithet you or they will pay.

Time will tell what men choose.

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