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2 min readOct 31, 2023

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She can share her feelings all she wants. I have a problem with her and you misrepresenting others based on your feelings.

There is no vitriol toward stay at home moms that is part of feminism. That's a lie.

There's been some necessary and neesee criticism about certain aspects of the TradWife movement as promoted by Influencers.

There's been some push back from women who don't want children about the norm of constantly questioning them about their reproductive plans. It's nobody's business.

There's been some difficult conversations of the motherhood penalty.

The travesty that is the Dobbs decision and all the falllout from that. Whole lot of "we told you so's". Frankly, conservative women earned that scorn. They betrayes their own daughters to the Christo-fascist cause.

But nowhere in there is anyone saying you should feel bad for being a stay at home mom. Frankly, that's just stupid. It's like shaming single moms. The bald fsct of the matter is most of will spend at least some time as a single mom. Same thing with being a stay at home mom. Lot ofnus spend at least some time.being a stay at home mom.

I was a stay at home mom for 5 years. Nearly every mom or grandma I know has spent some time as a stay at home parent to either their own children or their grandchildren.

Childcare is waaay to expensive for most families and there's no where near enough of it. Babies down take care of themselves.

Shaming women into "feeling oppressed" makes no sense. Seems to me like conservative women may feel like this because they're projecting retaliatory fears after all that single mom shaming they've done. Conservatives are like that. They project.

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