Serious answer.

It's not like men haven't been told how to "better themselves". They've been asked to come to us as partners rather than looking at us and treating us as playthings that also provide maid service.

What drives them to look overseas is that they've decided that's too big an ask. It's not because they're confused or somt understand. It's because they don't want a partner or to be a partner.

They want a bangmaid to make their Peter Pan fantasies a reality.

That's the driver. They now have to go out of country to get that because we've had enough.