Same here in America. The ones who are okay with that transactional thinking will disproportionately be on dating apps and out clubbing every weekend.

There's some definite patterns of behavior here.

Men keep going to these places instead of focusing on building something real with a woman who has goals and is clear headed and then these men blame women because they can't find real love.

Thank you for saying this quiet part out loud. Maybe they will hear it from you.

No, Gentlemen. You're not shopping at the real love store. You're shopping at the hook up for quick sex emporium. I wouldn't trot myself down to the Mercedes Benz dealer (flashy, overpriced, and scored 24/100 on reliability) and then be pissy because that Mercedes Benz wasn't a Toyota (known for being practical and reliable) either. It pays to have a firm understanding of what you're shopping for.