Relevance?

You're suggesting that men can't step up because they can't hack parenting like women can.

Okay. For the sake od argument, let's accept your argument.

Then all these dudebros, influencers, and religuous charlatans can just shut the fuck up and sit themselves all the way down.

You don't get to criticize the job someone else is doing when you categorically refuse or are incapable of doing it yourself.

Beggars can't be choosers.