Really? Then why is only a problem when it's happening to white men? Let's not be disingenuous. The ONLY time the suffering of others is a problem to most people is when it validates their own grievance.
You certainly never show much of a problem with the rampant and widespread bigotry everyone else endures whether that is women, Black people, other people of color, LGBTQ+, etc.
You only bring it up now that it's on your doorstep too.
What you call "fringe feminism" is merely women now acting out what men have normalized against them for thousands of years.
And you're still incapable of seeing it.
The real tragedy here is that vindictive acting out has to be done to men before they will bother trying to understand the harm they cause having fun, and being men. (Not your maleness, the current zeitgeist belief of performative masculinity). As evidenced by the very very many who are losing their damn minds now that they're getting back some of what they dish out.
Reactive abuse.