Re: perception of misogyny: No, that's not it. Men do not objectify other men. Men do not expect free labor from other men. Men do not define themselves as men by denigrating masculine characteristics found in other men.

The pecking men direct toward other men is mostly friendly and status building within an in group; its based on performance of masculinity. While it can be ego shredding g and quite harsh, it is not thr dame as pecking designed and done to oppress and keep dominance over an 'othered' group. This sort of pecking is based in hate.

Re. Equality: I have not written on equality. Urchmi g is put out with me about this and some other things about writing on Medium. I get those long drawn out sighs any time I mention anything close to those topics. I get no quarter from the Urchling.

Re. Morphable feminism: yikes. I can't answer that in a comment. Also, I need to have a think on it. I can say that you sensibly discuss it comprehensively, via clear context and defined lenses. You look at it small, you look at it large. You look back, you look forward, you watch the sides. You avoid sweeping generalizations, you don't talk about it as though someone else's opinion you read is fact.

That's my take anyway.