Pushing back on nonsense is not grievance.

Being hateful toward women, even though you're married and have a daughter because your mom told you you were too short to be attractive to women and you got an attitude about it which made dating harder than it had to be but you still found simeone who wanted to share her life with you and gave you at least one child but you're still bitter and resentful toward women because you believe other men got more play and you're whinging incessantly over your covetous self absorption rather than finding happiness and contentment in the family that you have......

That's grievance, my guy.

I wish you'd choose to get your head out of your ass, for your daughter's sake and any ither children you may have. I feel bad for her/them. You're depriving her/them of your full presence because of your bitterness. You don't get these years back once they're gone.