Problem here is that that level of anti-men rhetoric didn't just jump out of the weeds. It came about because of women being fed up and disgusted with how they've been treated by men.
You're basically condemning feminists as a whole for what a small fraction of feminists have stated and felt.
And you're justifying misogyny, which has been around a lot longer than feminism btw, for exactly the same dynamics that gave rise to radical feminism in the first place.
Maybe you should think that through.
If the women should be kept barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen model was such a great life for them, women wouldn't have stampeded toward independence so readily as soon as the chance became available.
Because on the whole men don't care about women beyond what women can provide for them, they don't have a clue of what would make life rich, rewarding, and fulfilling for women. As a result, they are incapable of providing such a life.
Studies consistently show women are better off and happier on their own. Without men and without being over burdened by children.