Please. Your argument here is also lame.

You assume the girls are preferred because there's an effoet to get them back without considering that they generally know where the girls are. The know where to start looking, anyway. They don't with the boys that get taken to be soldiers.

Further, you claim that gendered hate/bias/preference is perpetuated by the women, but who takes the boys from their families in the first place?

Men.

So, how is this a vias against men. It's male on male violence, not misandry.

It's also a stretch to attach that problem to this discussion.