Overall Good response Mike.
You are a rarity though. Also, I don’t know about decreasing libido being due to menopause or if it’s just because it becomes another emotional chore you have to do to keep your husband happy but you don’t get much or anything out of. In other words, sexual frustration from a negligent or selfish partner will kill a libido dead. I’ve been hearing for years from the menopausal set remarking on their surprise of a revitalization of their sex drive after divorce— even at 60 or 70.