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1 min readApr 18, 2022

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Or, accept that the rejection, in many cases, isn't personal the way you think it is and is actually doing you a favor, freeing you up to find a partner who is a better fit.

In other words, a woman who rejects you doesn't do so because she thinks you're not good enough, whatever that really means. But because you're a bad fit, for HER and her alone. You'd both be better off and happier with someone who is a better fit.

This isn't her being a bitch or performing hypergamy or whatever, this is her looking out for you both.

So don't be an ass because you weren't chosen and don't get a chip on your shoulder about it which is just self sabotaging.

Girls are constantly advised growing up that "you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your Prince". While the particular wording of that adage is cringe worthy eewww, the meaning is true for both men and women. We all face a lot of rejection before we get to "I do".

Don't hold it against someone for going through the exact same thing you do to get to their heart's desire.

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