One thing if Urchling were a boy I would do differently. Talking about sex, I’d make sure he could do better than being a one hit wonder. You won’t keep a partner long if you’re boring her to death.
As a girl, Urchling naturally knows that variety is the spice of life.
Boys don’t seem to pick up on this as something you get via the act of sex itself. They’ll drift toward going through girls like an ATM machine. That’s their variety. Think about the hamster wheel that thinking sets them up for though.
I’d definitely focus harder on respecting his own sexuality, if Urchling were a boy. Seems like so many boys wouldn’t be so prone to sex addiction or sexual obsession if they had ever developed meaningful respect for their own sexuality and their part of the reproductive process in the first place.
Yeah, I would have payed particular attention to that.