One thing has nothing to do with the other. Nor does the grievance of one nullify the grievance of another.

A rapist can be sent to jail and be raped.

A thief can come home with a wad of cash to find his home has been burglarized.

Anyone who has been victimized can be a perpetrator. Anyone who has committed a crime can be victimized by someone else.

We are dynamic beings who exist across a spectrum of circumstance and behaviors over the course of time.

Stop trying to pit us against one another. It won’t work. You’re just making yourself look pathetic.