One of the most hurtful and damaging things cominf from post #MeToo is the insistence from so many men that they are somehow owed automatic trust as an individual from women as a group because they claim they never raped or abused a woman. Or that somehow they are being unfairly punished by women as a group because they are an accessible individual man who can be easily disregarded and discarded based on the whims of a power play by a group.

The cognitive dissonance here is astounding. And we just keep seeing it again and again.