Okay, but if men truly cared about whether they were about to be fathers or not, then why don’t they ever follow up to find out? Why don’t more of them take responsibility for their part of the reproductive process? Why don’t they ever care before hand instead of throwing hissy fits about their rights once it becomes an issue of support?

Why are you putting the onus of this on women? And then crying foul because you got left out of the loop after doing absolutely nothing to step up?