Oh yeah? Is sge laughing at the mental imagery of being "sexually harassed" by a saguaro, the idea of men trying to be attractive and patiently pining away wgile waiting to be chosen, the metaphor, or the idea?

Again, the rules are the same. You can think of it like different tasks, maybe. I'm trying to avoid commodifying language becase wece had more than enough of that. Too much, actually.

That said, the rules of negotiation or barter might be the same, but one person must be the buyer and one person must be the seller. Sonits not that the eules are different, it's that positions are different.

If men were to be approached, they would have to be willing to conduct themselves from that position. Or learn some subtlety. But that would.mean giving up sexual conquest as a ststus marker amongst themselves. And I don't think most men want to do that.