Oh, well. I can clue you on on that.
That's the fault of those single mothers who won't "allow" these men to be fathers.
After they ran off.
And dodge child support.
And hook up with some other woman instead of using their allotted time with their children.
And won't be fussed about what's going on with their kids.
Yep. ALL her fault.
Because she has enough self dignity to waste her time running after him, begging him to be a father to the children he helped create.