Oh we know what feminine traits are, they're just not valuable. Society has never truly valued those feminine traits. It scorns and derides them.

Young women are just as mind and caring as women have always been. They're just not wasting it on men who abuse them anymore.

They're taking men's advice. Men didn't want to help us check abusive men and instead insisted women choose better men. Problem was, too many men wore a mask and you couldn't ever tell. So "choose better men" really meant "don't choose men".