Oh no. You were clear enough. Sure there are some cultural differences as to what may I may not stand out. But we've all been there, brushing the flak off from obtuse men who have zero idea why what they said might be infuriating to a woman. They are THAT blind.

I thought it was a good post. Well written concise. Good observations. Hope to see more from you. Don't let some troll who's being purposefully dense discourage you from writing.