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1 min readApr 25, 2023

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Of course not. Stop centering men and men's feelings.

But I would have her truly prepared. You've thought about protecting her.

That's sweet. Ever think about making sure she can protect herself?

I just explained to you that she has already experienced a form of predation. And you don't know. Have you considered finding out why? And ensuring that you do know?

Half of all rape victims end up becoming suicidal. Did you know that? Once again, that doesn't xount the rest of it. They blame themselves. Have you thought about mitigation strategies for the shame that comes with sexual objectification, harassment, assault, domestic violence, and rape?

Does she have a lawyer? The means to pursue a harassment suit? Does she have a safety fund? Can she pay for her own rape kit to be processed, becauze the state can't.

Can she spot dating ploys? Can she judge sincerity? Is she xonfident enough to say no when pressed? Will she protect boundaries?

Does she hate her body? Does she self harm or have disordered eating?

I'd have her prepared for the realities of living as an oppressed class and for the objectification she is already facing.

I sure as hell would be far more worried about these things than how it makes men feel.

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