Not sure why you're bitter that so many women have reached that same point and want that same opportunity.
Everybody has their threshold. You're basically pissed that the election was that threshold for so any women. These women have come to realize that they need to do what you did, center themselves and find out who they are without men.
"Getting even with men over Trump" is male centered grievance rhetoric. It's not about them. It's about looking after ourselves and centering ourselves for fucking once.