SC
Nov 24, 2023

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Not really. It's a slippery slope. Masculinity and femininity aren't static things. They're dynamic.

What you're saying is rooted in gender essentialism and complementarianism.

What for labeled as masculine energy doesn't belong to men any more than what got labeled feminine energy belongs to women. If your femininity needs balance, you need to balance yourself by ctivating more mascine energy within yourself instead of labor dumping you being an incomplete person in your own right onto a man.

Imagine if you were both whole people, existing as freely maneuverable satellites orbiting each other by choice instead of grapling together in an eagle-like mating cartwheel that could turn into a death spiral because neither one of you can let go of trying to control the behavior of the other through that complementarianism.

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