Not men's (fault). Incels and pick up culture.
Men who don't delve into the ideological trap of Incel culture seem to be doing okay for the most part.
The point is, this culture has been monetized and is preying on young men (meaning, really, teenage boys) who aren't old enough to know any better and indoctrinating them into a cult of misogyny before they've ever even had a girlfriend.
And then they never get a girlfriend because no woman in her right mind would willingly want to spend time with someone who hates them so virulently.