Not just in your circles. And that "Are you sure?" is often followed up by an "Do you have an out?"

Also not uncommon to hear a response something along the lines of a shrug and a "he's a decent enough starter husband" to that first question.

It's literally been YEARS since I've heard a young woman gushing over an impending marriage. There's just not the excitement there used to be. Nobody, but nobody, expects it to last. Expectations for it making you long term happy are highly diminished.