Not conflating men's experiences is not the same as downplaying them. You're creating a false narrative that men are abused by women.

I'll say I again. While there are some extreme cases of women abusing men, overwhelmingly abused men were/are abused by OTHER men.

Pretending otherwise is just spewing false propaganda.

I also specifically stated that women perpetrators should be punished; I'll add: commensurate with punishments given to men offenders.

And come on. You gave them a bye with that passive, overly solicitous display of compassion. The poor dears. They could never figure out how to hold their own discussions. Good thing they have you to mollycoddle them. Otherwise they might have to take some responsibility for their own problems for once. Luckily, they even have you to help them ... wait for it... blame women.

Regardless of what the numbers actually say, let's blame women for male abuse.

How very convenient, tired, pedantic, and predictable.

Come on. You know that's exactly what you did.