Not always and not inherently. You always argue for holding the center line. Paddling around, as you call it, in the interspace od gender dynamics and presentation holds the center ground against extremes of expression.

Or are you saying, being a raided up gym rst is a natural expression of masculinity and starving yourself to he thin is a natural expression of femininity? Both sexes are currently maiming themselves via elective surgery in order to look more manly and and womanly.

These extremes ate harming people. Both the ones who pursue them and the ones who are psychologicslly burdened from not being able to attain them.

Non-binary doesn't have to have anything to do with Transpeople. It can simply be a rejection of these gender extremes which are getting out od hand.