Nope. Not really.

More to the point, which standards do you think women have that are superficial?

Do you understand what a standard is vs a preference?

Why is it okay for men to have superficial standards but not women?

I mean, sure, if you just need to have this belief you keep investing in acknowledged.... I'm pretty sure I could search high and low and conduct some interviews and research how that plays out in the real world, I would eventually find a very small fraction of women with unrealistic standards.

So no, this is not the issue you keep trying to make it out to be.

That said, I do believe there's a fair number of female Influencers and grifters of various sorts making money off this narrative. But these are not women who were ever going to love you or care about you so I don't know why you insist on allowing yourself to get bent out of shape about it. It's a good thing they turn you down, you're not getting used and you can avoid them by getting off those apps and not listening to those bro culture podcasts. Check those narratives against reality.

Honestly! That's the equivalent of me hopping my sweet ass self down to Epstein island and then getting pressed because those men have unrealistic "standards". Those men don't care about me! They're johns.