Nobody is making men be in relationships. If you're that unhappy, leave. Choose better women.

Your language is centered on controlling women's behavior. Those who cannot control themselves have got no business telling someone else how to be.

We're not going backwards. Her standards are her standards. If you don't like her standards, can't meet her standards, don't want to meet her standards, then don't. Find someone else. Nobody is making you ask her on a date.

You want her to settle for mediocrity so you won't have to by your perspective (universal you).

(Universal you) Why do you want her so bad if her behavior is so disgusting and abhorrent to you? Why does she have to change to be more acceptable to you rather than you finding someone else who actually wants you too? Let's just day it out plain. How many points on the fuck scorecard is this despicable woman worth? We know you don't actually care if she ends up alone with 50 cats. This isn't about you caring about her well being, it's about you getting what you want out of her and shaming these women into compliance. You're perpetuating a manipulative con, a scam, and think people won't see it for what it is. And let's be real, if she does become a childless cat lady, men will have the opportunity to bond over heckling and degrading her. What are you trying to do exactly? Get double points? Points for banging her now (or giving an assist that will benefit you later) and points for misogynistic shaming of an old maid?