Nobody ever said abortion is easy. It is necessary. So you cry about causing an unwanted pregnancy.

Did you discuss protection beforehand with your partner? Did you use any? Did you offer support? Could you back that up? Did you offer to take custody of the child so she knew a baby she couldn't care for was at least with family who could rather than being farmed out to the adoption system for someone else's profit?

If not, then cry about it all you want. She had to do the hard thing because you never stepped up and offered any other viable option.