No. You need to want to be a partner, not an overlord. You need communication skills and relationship skills and you need to uphold your corner on those things.

You need to not be dead weight. You need to be real. You need to participate, fully and completely, in the families that you create and not bail the minute things get rough. I know some.giys going to bring up divorce initiation statistics. This is where understanding those statistics comes into play. If you violated your vows or just spent most of your marriage checked out and feeling resentful, youre the one who bailed, my guy. She just had to clean up the mess. Again.