No. This is signalling interest. Both men and women do this on different and shared ways. It's got nothing to do with your "energy" whatsoever.

We all have phones. We all know how to use them.

Using a phone is an exclusively male skillset. I'd argue if you were going to place phones on a masculinity/femininity spectrum (still the stupidest thing I've ever heard), use of phones would clearly belong on the femininity pole because using phones requires language and communication skills and women are just "hardwired" to be better at that than men. The man would.have to talk or write words. He would be emasculated using or sitting with all that feminine "energy".

Do you see how fucking stupid you gender essentialists sound? It's beyond the pale. I don't know why you want to waste so much time and energy with this bullshit. All it does is create unnecessary conflict and division, make relating harder, and interfere with socializing and dating.

And all because somebody way back when got a wild hair up their butt and abstracted up some stupidity to explain it. And all you gender essentialist yahoos keep investing in abstract lunacy.

And then you'll be crying in your corn flakes when all the men devolve into dragging you off by your hair any time their pecker gets a twitch because of that masculine "energy" that needs to "chase".