No. This has nothing to do with the woman's character. What she IS showing you is that she's not in a good place to be dating due prior bad experiences. She's still reactive about them. Otherwise, your innocuous actions would not be triggerinf that sense of unease or fear.

It is doing you a favor. Leave her alone and wish her well. Have some compassion. All the PUAs, datint coaches, and manisohere Influencers have put us through the ringer. What you are seeing is the direct result of that. Stop listening to these idiots and following their dumb ass advice.

Creep discussions are not about punishing men.