No. They've put themselves on dating apps.
They've taken "self improvement" courses from lifestyle and dating coach grifters promoting PUA tactics and trickery to coerce women into sex rather than authenticity and true relationship/communication skills.
Theyve spent hours on porn sites that degrade and dehumanize women and promote violent sex as a norm.
So no. They haven't put themselves on the dating market only to inexplicably be rejected by irrationally overly choosy females.
What they have done is everything under the sun to ensure that no normal woman will be able to tolerate their presence for long, much less want to date them or marry them.
Being treated like shit is not as much for us women as you men have convinced yourselves it is. You're learning a hard lesson because you've been stupid. You've done stupid things and listened to stupid people because you got conned by grifters looking to make an easy buck off you.
You want a date? Stop being stupid.